Tantra Practice For Men
Some would say that something in your life has drawn you here. I would say that this something is Tantra, and the Tantra of the Universe welcomes you. What is Tantra? This is often the first question, and it has many answers to many different people. The first answer here is more what Tantra is not. Tantra is not a massage, and Tantra is not an excuse for sex with incense and music. The Tantra practice that I offer is a spiritual, mystical, and connected sensual experience, which will require as much open-mindedness and participation from you, the Seeker, as it does study and preparation from me, the Practitioner. As men who love men and men who seek the touch of other men, my practice of Tantra has much to offer us. My practice is designed to help introduce you to this ancient and mystical healing art.
At a fundamental level, the word Tantra in Sanskrit signifies a “weaving.” I will work with you to integrate and weave together your Mind, Body and Spirit. In this day and age many of us can feel scattered and distracted by the world around us, and my Tantra practice works to bring you as into the present Space and Time as possible, bringing to the forefront the knowledge that everything you need is in your Body, at your fingertips. Spirituality does not have to exist in an esoteric outside realm but rather can be found in your body, in your sensuality, in your sexuality. Tantra is a technology by which we can, together, make this happen.
In my individual Tantra work, I have sessions available from one hour, to 90 minutes, to 120 minutes. ​In each session, I will meet with you to begin to understand your individual needs in order to help you orient you in your own Space and Time. We will work together to find areas in your Tantric energy to increase flow, increase your own self-acceptance, and help with communication within your own relationships.
The session is designed to help you, the Seeker with:
* coming to terms with any situations around body image
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* the discovery of unconscious beliefs around sexuality, body image, sex, and self-esteem, that may be affecting the physical body
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* feelings around touch and intimacy, and any obstacles experiencing pleasure and or closeness
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* most of all, discovering and owning sensual bliss, without guilt
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* the practice of setting and accepting boundaries, something necessary in every successful relationship.
Additionally, sessions may include:
*Tarot work to help with a better understanding of your place in the cycle of your own life
*Chakra work and education to augment energy flow, both in sexual and sensual settings and you life
A typical framework for a session includes a beginning verbal and visual energy assessment, followed by an eye-gazing spirit greeting, then and undressing ceremony, during which you the Seeker, and I, the Practitioner, help each undress and release things that may be pulling us away from the Time and Space where we are. We then spend our time using sensual touch to weave together our energies; towards the end we will spend some quiet moments of reflection together at the end, and I will make any suggestions I have have been guided towards for your path.
The session is done in the nude for a few reasons:
The vulnerability of being naked with another brings us right to the present Space and Time, and helps us release ties to outside world, and begin to see ourselves as the men we are hidden inside our daily lives, along with feelings and desires that we may not be aware of in our day to day business. We can get more in touch with what arouses ourselves. Furthermore, skin to skin contact is healing and wonderful, and the opportunity for naked skin to skin contact shows us this.
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In the nude state, touching another man can connect us with our deeper emotions, and connect us with physical memories, with more opportunity to explore our deeper connections in a safe, bounded environment. We move past the usual verbal communication of our daily lives, and into a deeper, connected, sensual and physical realm.
​My Tantra practice is very much based around letting go of shame, and the guilt that so many of us have felt at different times in our lives, holding us back from that towards which we are truly drawn. We learn to breathe through this, and the other intense feelings that come to us, bringing pleasure and healing to Mind, Body and Spirit. Eros, another name for the sensual energy with which we will work, can be breathed in and out in this naked state to bring pure ecstasy into our lives.
In order to create and preserve a bounded Time and Space with the appropriate focus, clear boundaries will be discussed and established at the beginning of the session. Both the Seeker and Practitioner’s boundaries will be upheld throughout the session, and there is no penetrative sex included in the session. These boundaries allow for clarity and uninterrupted pleasure.
I invite you to join me as a Seeker, and discover your own connection to the Tantra that has been waiting on you​. If this is your first time experiencing a session, I would recommend a longer session, as often it takes New Seekers longer to let go and fully embrace the experience. However you choose, know that your path into Tantra has only begun.